FROM WHERE I’M STANDING
Can I grab an interaction?!
I understand how you feel.
I can feel the pain of you.
It’s okay, come over.
-words of empathy.
Have you experienced these words? Have you said this to anyone? Yeah! Maybe knowingly or unknowingly. So, this blog says you the importance of such words and how they could make you feel, and how to make others happy.
Perhaps, millions think it’s foolish to empathize with others as they think it is others’ life. Billions think it is something purposeful. Do u really think it is foolish or purposeful? Scroll it down.
Every day people have their problems in their routine. Some are tackled, some are buried in heart, some are busted. As common, the problem will be solved either by facing it or solving it. But, before getting rid of it we have fear in our instinct mentally. Therefore, we need support and to motivate our self-confidence. But what do we exactly need? In my perspective, I’ll portray that “The queen of all emotions". It’s EMPATHY.
Once Alfred Adler said,
Empathy is seeing with the eyes of another
Listening with the ears of another
And feeling with the heart of another.
But to my mind, Empathy is not only putting ourselves in other shoes, feeling about only others worries but also a SUPPORTING WORD to raise from their problem.
While writing this blog, I do remember the dark part of my life where EMPATHY is my bright light that brightens me. I was the one corned by my friends in past. Felt quite distressed, lonely, pretty ugly jealous of seeing friendship goals. Dumping myself to dark. Here comes my world,
Mother:- “This is not the end of your life, no one is permanent. Never beg for relationships if it’s not true .it’s smarmy. “IT’S OKAY, COME OVER. I M THERE FOR YOU"
That moment, That term, That expressio “Means the world to me". It keeps me moving further.
So,
When certain people suffer
Longing for shoulder
Don’t sympathize
Empathize them.
This makes you happy and satisfied. To be precise, it offers us to be close. Also, Empathy is key to the success of one’s life. BE THE PART OF ONE’S SUCCESS. Don’t think it’s just a personality trait, it is an emotionally connected bridge between people.